Het boek waarvan je wilde dat je ouders het hadden gelezen – Philippa Perry
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Het boek waarvan je wilde dat je ouders het hadden gelezen – Philippa Perry

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Het boek waarvan je wilde dat je ouders het hadden gelezen – Philippa PerryWil je patronen doorbreken en de band met je kind verdiepen? In de internationale bestseller Het boek waarvan je wilde dat je ouders het hadden gelezen laat psychotherapeut Philippa Perry zien dat opvoeden niet gaat over regeltjes en straffen, maar over verbinding en zelfinzicht. Een onmisbare gids voor iedere ouder die patronen wil doorbreken en een veilige basis wil bieden. Waarom dit boek je kijk op opvoeden voorgoed verandert Kijk naar jezelf:

Wil je patronen doorbreken en de band met je kind verdiepen?

In de internationale bestseller Het boek waarvan je wilde dat je ouders het hadden gelezen laat psychotherapeut Philippa Perry zien dat opvoeden niet gaat over regeltjes en straffen, maar over verbinding en zelfinzicht. Een onmisbare gids voor iedere ouder die patronen wil doorbreken en een veilige basis wil bieden.

Waarom dit boek je kijk op opvoeden voorgoed verandert

  • Kijk naar jezelf: Ontdek hoe jouw eigen opvoeding invloed heeft op hoe jij nu als ouder reageert
  • Focus op verbinding: Leer hoe je écht luistert naar de gevoelens van je kind, in plaats van alleen het gedrag te corrigeren
  • Geen schuldgevoel: Perry schrijft zonder oordeel. Het gaat niet om wat je fout doet, maar om hoe je het kunt herstellen
  • Voor alle leeftijden: Of je nu een baby hebt of een puber, de lessen over hechting en communicatie zijn tijdloos

Wat maakt dit opvoedboek zo bijzonder?

Dit is geen "hoe-fix-ik-mijn-kind" handleiding, maar een "hoe-kijk-ik-naar-mezelf" boek. Philippa Perry neemt de druk van perfect willen zijn weg en laat zien dat verbinding belangrijker is dan perfectie.

Wereldwijde bestseller – door psychologen aangeraden
Toegankelijk geschreven – Perry schrijft met empathie, niet met oordeel
Praktisch toepasbaar – van baby tot puber
Perfect cadeau – voor babyshower, kraamvisite of bewuste ouders

Voor wie is dit boek?

Perfect voor (aanstaande) ouders die:

  • Patronen uit hun eigen jeugd willen doorbreken
  • De verbinding met hun kind willen versterken
  • Bewust willen opvoeden zonder schuldgevoel
  • Willen begrijpen waarom ze soms reageren zoals ze doen
  • Op zoek zijn naar een diepgaand cadeau voor nieuwe ouders

Veelgestelde vragen

Is dit boek geschikt voor aanstaande ouders?

Zeker! Het is de perfecte voorbereiding op het ouderschap omdat het je helpt naar je eigen bagage te kijken voordat je kind er is.

Gaat het boek over opvoedtips of psychologie?

Het is een mix – het biedt psychologisch inzicht dat direct vertaald wordt naar praktische verbinding met je kind. Geen droge theorie, maar herkenbare situaties.

Waarom is Philippa Perry zo populair?

Haar nuchtere en empathische stijl maakt complexe psychologie toegankelijk voor elke ouder. Ze schrijft zonder oordeel en met veel begrip.

Voor welke leeftijd is dit boek geschikt?

Van baby tot puber – de principes over hechting, communicatie en emotieregulatie zijn universeel toepasbaar, ongeacht de leeftijd van je kind.

Vind je het lastig om je eigen reacties te begrijpen?

Dit boek helpt je ontdekken waarom je soms reageert zoals je doet, en hoe je rustiger kunt reageren in stressvolle momenten.

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Lovely Book!
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Written as a companion to Advent and Christmastide, I could not wait until then to start reading this book. Lanier Ivester's writing is compelling and thought-provoking. Jennifer Trafton's art throughout the book is rich and beautiful. The writing and art accompanied by recipes, menus, devotional suggestions, music recommendations, and craft ideas make this a book I will be pulling out year after year. "Look now, for glad and golden hours come swiftly on the wing. O rest beside the weary road and hear the angels sing."
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Luminous reflections for the glad and golden hours of Christmastide
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Lanier Ivester's Glad and Golden Hours is a beautiful advent companion filled with tempting recipes, helpful holiday tips, and luminous reflections upon the "bright sadness" of the holiday season. Her lovely writing is wise and earnest and kindled my heart to imagine how I might savor the glad and golden hours of Christmastide this year.
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Whether you’re facing this Advent with great anticipation or overwhelming grief, Glad and Golden Hours will prove a sweet companion for the season. Interspersed with Lanier Ivester’s essays are holiday recipes and craft ideas, along with illustrations by Jennifer Trafton. A collection of wisdom infused with beauty and grace that I’ll return to year after year!
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Suze60
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I didn't want to like this book, thinking it would be another how-to-have-the perfect-Christmas book. It's not that. I liked it so much I bought it for my friends. It's an exquisitely beautiful, thoughtful, joyful week by week story of preparation for the celebration of the Nativity. The author shares her own traditions, her recipes, book lists and song lists in a week-by-week format of suggestions that are easily adaptable to your own family situation. Perhaps most important, she shares her experience of deep grief in a season when joy is expected. No matter your life situation - single, married with little or big children, empty nester - Glad and Golden Hours can be like sitting with a friend for a few minutes a day, a friend who encourages you to take time for what's really important, to take joy where you find it, to maybe rethink what Advent and the Christmas season mean for you (and your family.) I ended up loving this book I didn't even want to like.
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Wonderful book that just got better as it went on, with the last three chapters being my favorites! In today's distracted, entertainment-tainted culture, it may seem impossible but is imperative for us to cultivate quiet in our lives. Most of us know this, yet we still shun such moments of hush even when a way shows itself open to us. As Sarah wrote, we hold our phones as a shield, protecting ourselves from "the chill nakedness of our discontent and shame, our fear and desire". In her insightful book, Sarah asks us, "Have you stood like a watchman on the walls of your heart through the witching hour of dusk when the horizons of productivity and familiarity give way to some vast realm just beyond your understanding, a realm that is both your terror and your deep desire?" Yet, as Sarah so rightly points out, we do not only meet ourselves in that vast, spacious place of quiet; we meet God, "that great word speaking us back into life" and "the light burning at the back of our eyes so that we look upon the world in the brightness of his companionship". Sarah's book is a treasure of her own personal stories and struggles, and the insights birthed from the living of them. One of my favorite chapters was the Wise Woman's Cottage, an excellent analogy for the gift of imagination, one of the gifts of quiet Sarah explores in her book's concluding chapters. The way she weaves the story of C. S. Lewis into her contemplations brought tears to my eyes. Yet, the chapter that drew those tears out of my eyes was the following one in which Sarah shared a true story akin (at least in my mind) to that of Lucy's in Prince Caspian, a story that calls us to courage and obedience in heeding God's voice, even when the message comes only to us. "When I listen for God's voice, I find he doesn't just speak generally; he speaks particularly, to me. Quiet restores us to the wondrous autonomy of finding that God truly does come to speak to those who love him as Father and Friend. Of course, we listen, and that kind of listening can change the course of our lives...There is only one Voice whose words will always tell us true". Such wondrous words, though, can call on our courage to obey when those on the outside of God's inner promptings lack His perspective on the matter. Sarah's personal story in this chapter burned my eyes with sympathy and - when I read the encouragement she received -joy. The last chapter of this potent book was one I would not have guessed to move me as it did. The reminder that quiet "offers the space in which we may give voice to" our anguish and wrestling "so that they do not destroy us" because, "in God's hands...our lament becomes the companion leading us to the source of our lost joy". Oh, how true. Oh, how beautiful: that quiet offers us the gift of lament, which is itself a grace as "it bears at heart the belief in the reality of joy" (a truth Sarah's sister, Joy Clarkson, explored in her insightful book Aggressively Happy, in which I was reminded that sadness speaks truth to us just as joy does; we are sad because of a loss we *should* be enjoying, something we were meant to have or experience, which will one day be redeemed). In offering our laments up to God, we can then hear his words of comfort, truth, hope and assurance just as Job did, but quiet is necessary for such a divine exchange to be experienced.
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